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12

Jun

Woohoo! Thank YOU!

Posted in Articles, gratitude, happiness, Life Challenges.
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I would like to say an enormous heartfelt THANK YOU to everyone for voting for me in the Women Inspiring Women National Awards!  As you know, I was nominated, then shortlisted for ‘Woman’s Advocate /Role Model Award’ and on Saturday night, I travelled up to the Crown Plaza, Birmingham NEC for a night of sparkle and celebration.  What a night!

As the names and photographs of shortlisted ladies were flashed up on the big screen, I could feel the energy and wonder rising in the room.  There were cheers, clapping and anticipation… When it came to the category I was shortlisted for, I watched the names flash up of those who I admire so much – and then the gold envelope was opened “And the award goes to….” “Ali Soleil!”  I couldn’t believe it!  I was shocked and elated at the same time!  As I walked to the stage and climbed the steps I thought in true Oscar’s style “Oh no! I’m going to cry!”  I didn’t though.  Phew!  Funny now, looking back a few days later but I was so overwhelmed and feeling a deep sense of gratitude for all the support I’d received.  The journey hasn’t always been so smooth.

I remember just less than a year and a half ago, sitting on the edge of a wall with my partner, looking out across the sea to St Michaels Mount in Cornwall, wondering if and when my business was going to take off.  It was a struggle and a seed of doubt had crept in and was festering and growing.  Was I going to make it?  You see my business is my passion, it’s part of who I am.  Have you ever felt like this?  The thought of giving up on my dream wasn’t appealing and looking for a fulfilling job just didn’t seem an option.  It’s funny how it’s so often said that you get the ‘break-down before the break-through’ because it is so true.  It’s all most like a divine test, to see if you’re committed to your purpose, if you can hold your nerve – and fortunately I did.  Even though the seed of doubt had crept in, I still had faith it would work out and decided to get out of doubt and back into purpose.  Serving women in their greatness is my passion, what’s yours?

Since sitting on the wall and making that decision, my business has grown fast – and so have I!  Getting out of my comfort zone and giving talks, making videos, setting up Fab Friends Network, starting a second group, working with clients individually and also in my higher level mentoring group.  It’s been hard at times, just like ‘growing pains’ but overall a joyful experience – because my passion is supporting women to step into their truth, know their passions in life, discover their purpose – and often to support them to monetise this in an expansive and fabulous business.  I guess, just as I have done for myself.  There have been some huge mind shifts along the way, some big blocks have now thankfully gone, some new clarity gained.

And this has been a very special year so far, and I am so hugely grateful for all the support, belief and love that I’ve received from so many including my partner, clients, friends and family, my mentor Carly Hope and to Lucie Bradbury and the fabulous team behind Women Inspiring Women National Awards.  So a really big thank you to you all.

And if you’re still sat on ‘your wall’ wondering, dig a little deeper, how committed are you to your desire?   Banish doubt and get on purpose.  Does it feel like your souls mission?  If it is, breathe, get ready for the inner calling, be ready to receive the bursts of inspiration that you will come from your souls divine source, hear them and take the inspired action and a giant leap of faith.  The world needs beautiful YOU!

Love and sunshine

Ali xx

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09

Jun

Are You Ready To Live In Abundance?

Posted in Articles, Perfect Days, Personal Development, Setting up a business.
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Have you noticed how easy it is to get comfortable being uncomfortable?  Wishing your life and business were more abundant and not knowing how to move toward getting what you want?  It’s like there is something in-built that stops us from reaching out and living the life of our dreams and we’re kept on the side lines, playing small and thinking “one day it’ll be different” but knowing deep down that something has to change in our thinking before it could happen and time is ticking on….

Martin Luther King said “Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.”     And yet, when we don’t feel it’s something we can realistically achieve, the first step up, can just seem a bit too high and we abandon the dream to stick with being comfortable, in our comfort zone settling for second best.  And our life just plods on.

It’s not meant to be this way!  You are meant to stand out and shine!

Often when I ask my clients what they would really love to have, become or do they struggle… they feel uncomfortable. Sometimes they are embarrassed to express what they’d really love, because they feel undeserving, selfish or that it just could never happen to them… if they see someone else living their dream and they say they feel envious of those experiencing what they wish they could be experiencing – has it happened to you too?

And how do I know all this?  Because I was there, in that place not so long ago.  And now I’ve discovered that following my passions, has lead me to my purpose and by building a business around my purpose with support of mentors, I’ve broken though the glass ceilings that my limiting beliefs had created and my life is changing magically!  It really has become abundant!  Would you like that too?

Are you ready to make the big shift and harvest your desires?  Would you like to break through your glass ceiling?  Even to build a business around your desires and purpose – and monetise it in such a way that feels fabulous, exciting and effortless?  Part Two of my blog will follow tomorrow, so do come back to find out how you too can make this happen!

Sunshine and smiles

Ali xx

 

Tagged Abundance, ali soleil, Bucks, comfort zone, faith, glass ceiling, High Wycombe, limiting beliefs, living the dream, Martin Luther King, passion, purpose, struggle, womens mentor and coach | Comments (0)

06

Jun

Ready to transform from Fed Up to Fabulous?

Posted in happiness, Life Challenges, Perfect Days, Personal Development, self esteem.
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I hope you’ve had a lovely weekend and enjoyed the sunshine.  I spent my Saturday in Manchester with some of my coaching friends.   It’s the second time I’ve only been there and walking in heat I thought ‘It feels like I’m on holiday!’ how great is that?  I hope you’ve had some fun too.

The weekend is coming to an end now, the rain is falling and the new week is approaching fast – is your heart sinking knowing you’ve got to go back to work or be alone with the kids again, back to the routine? 

I remember having that dreadful sinking feeling EVERY Sunday…

It was a lonely, stomach churning feeling.  I remember thinking ‘there must be more to life than this…’ but not knowing what that was.  Knowing it was within my grasp but not quite reaching it.

What did I want?  What do you want?

Do you ever think you’re ‘existing’ but not ‘living’?  Not sure what to do?  Not feeling fabulous or fulfilled?

I spend years trying to find the answers on my own – it just wasn’t happening and for me, my self esteem was on the floor – I was pretty fed up with being me and my life.

When you don’t know what you want, it’s hard to know where to focus.

I found support, re-designed my life by discovering my passion, raising my self esteem – and now everyday is a ‘jump out of bed’ day!

I was watching the repeat of Britain’s Got Talent this afternoon.  Christopher Stone, an accountant said from being a small child he knew he was a performer.  When he sings he knows he’s being who he really is.  Piers Morgan encouraged him to give up what he doesn’t enjoy and follow his passion – sharing his incredible voice with the world.

If this resonates with you and you know this is your time for change – you are ready to invest in your future, discover your ‘truth’, raise your self esteem, live life with a spring in your step, passion in your heart whilst feeling feminine and fabulous then I have just the thing for you.

Ok Ali, what is it?

I am ready and eager to support you!  I am SO excited to be offering FIVE ladies the opportunity of individually spending a day in June with me, at the fabulous price of £497. These special ‘Fed Up to Fabulous’ days will be face to face in the Buckinghamshire area.  If you are ready to commit, you will enjoy this life changing, magical day which will start at 10.00am and finish by 4.00pm.  There are selected week days and currently a few weekend dates available.

I have many skills up my sleeve to support you including coaching, mentoring, NLP, Time Line Therapy even Hypnosis and can offer an interest free payment plan to split the investment into two payments.  You’ll need to be quick to book as one place has just been booked!  Please go to www.daringdamsels.com and see the empowered words other clients have said after working with me.

Imagine this – it is July 2010 – it’s Sunday evening you are feeling relaxed – you can’t wait for tomorrow, as you are following your passion, ready to jump out of bed in the morning and feeling FABULOUS!  Is that good?

I’m ready to get started, are you?  If you would like one of the Fed Up to Fabulous days, please email me back without delay ali@daringdamsels.com.  

Have a great week, wishing you love and happiness

Ali xx

 

Tagged Coaching, dream, fabulous, Fed Up to Fabulous, feminine, gift to the world, jump out of bed, NLP, passion, self esteem, Sunday feeling, truth, work tomorrow | Comments (0)
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