Goal Setting

Apr

Sabotaging Your Path To Happiness And Success?

Posted in Goal Setting, happiness, Personal Development, Setting up a business.

How often have you found yourself with an idea or a plan which you know will take you towards your goal in a big way. As the plan starts to unfold, perhaps it takes you into unfamiliar territory. And a familiar inner-voice begins to talk to you. Do you know the one I’m talking about? The one that says ‘I can’t do it’, ‘how can I?’, ‘I don’t know how to…’

For many of us, it seems easier to allow ourselves to become consumed with self doubt and negative self talk. It feels so much easier and more comfortable to shrink the dream, play small and hold back.

And yet, the idea was like a freshly planted seed, full of potential – filled with goodness destined to grow to become something special. Just as you are here to be the best ‘you’ that you can be – let me tell you, you are here for greatness.

If you recognise this self sabotaging pattern, the one that creates the stomach churning feelings, then I’d like to ask you something. How long will you hold yourself back from the happiness and success which is within your reach?

Come on girl friend! It’s time to dig deep. It’s time to take the plunge, the clock is ticking and your life isn’t waiting. Give your ideas – your little seeds, some love and nurture them into seedlings every day, allowing them to flourish.

Take a little courage and know that you don’t have to do it all alone. There are experts, mentors and friends who can support you to grow tall. And there is sunshine where you least expect it! And you don’t have to do it all at once – just take a step in the direction of your big vision every day. Imagine, how you will feel when you’ve taken that step, pushed your comfort zone a bit bigger – what more you could become now? I believe you’ve not even scratched the surface of what you could achieve. The best is yet to come. Happiness and success are right there – it’s time to go for it!

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Feb

Making ‘Exercuses’?

Posted in Goal Setting, gratitude, Life Challenges.

Our theme is: “Making Exercuses? Transform Your Life!”

So many of us have great intentions to get more exercise, to become fitter, gain greater tone and take those trainers out of the cupboard…

And then it seems life gets in the way, doesn’t it?

Or does it? Are we just making ‘exercuses’?

When else do we put off being at our best? Achieving the desires we have? What are your exercise goals? If you were to embrace your exercise and health goals what difference would this make to your life and your business?

Also in our meetings we’ll have time to celebrate our successes over the last month, take a private shap shot of where we are in our life and business right now – and of course there will be lots of interaction, laughter and insight. And as always… there will be cake! Yum!

Find out more by visiting our website www.fabfriendsnetwork.com and finding your nearest group. Alison Jones of Iron Mum will be generously hosting/speaking at High Wycombe, Basingstoke and online Truro Fab Friends in March!

Your first visit is complimentary, so if you’d like to be included on the guest list of any of our meetings, then please do contact us via the website.

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Jan

What’s Been Happening? January 2013

Posted in Goal Setting, gratitude, Perfect Days, Personal Development, Setting up a business.

Today is the last day of January 2013! Can you believe it? Time really does seem to fly by doesn’t it? Has January, been action packed for you too?

Mine began with creating and delivery my first ever teleclass – something a few years ago, I felt just too scared to commit to. And as with most things we fear, it wasn’t so scary at all and in fact it was a lot of fun and well received! Thank you to all of you who signed up for the free Wow With Workshops call!

And the group of ladies who have joined me on Creating Divine Workshops, the 5 part series are all moving forward creating their events – so very exciting! Where is fear, stopping you from accelerating forward in your life or business?

Fab Friends members raised more money in January for our sponsor child Maria who lives in Kenya, at The Happy House. Laurie Spicer, of Gold Matters bought our old precious metal jewellery and the ‘hostess’ commission was sent over to The Children of Watamu!

And I was thrilled beyond belief to be taking 3 of my Divine Goddess Mentoring clients for Afternoon Tea at The Ritz! Such a treat, such a glorious day and in the perfect venue for our meeting! Imagined it was January 2014 already and we shared what we achieved in 2013 – as if it had already happened. So much magic was created, so many giggles and just the perfect high vibration environment to create powerful desires! When was the last time you treated yourself to something special?

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Jun

Live In Abundance Now

Posted in Articles, Goal Setting, happiness, Life Challenges, Perfect Days, Personal Development.

Following on from yesterday’s blog post, have you decided you’ll do whatever it takes to break through your glass ceiling to live a rich, fulfilling and abundant life? Perhaps creating a business around your passion and purpose? If you have, read on:

What would it take for you to choose what you’d love to have, and own the dream? Take some time out to reflect and dream on that – literally, have some time out – a walk in nature, some ‘me time’, to sit, doodle and dream. Everything is about choice and of course love! Be in love with what you want for you! – It’s ok!

We live in an abundant world and when we expand our comfort zone and dream bigger it can fill our tummies with butterflies and excitement. Hold onto the passion you feel, for this is what will carry you forward. The inner gremlin will begin to plant the seeds of doubt in your mind and they will grow – if you give them focus – so keep focused on what you want.

Now you know what you want, how will you bring it into your reality?

Build a dream board with pictures of what you’d love to have, become and experience – don’t be shy – own the power of each image and get behind the emotions they stir as if you had already achieved them.
Journal your feelings and thoughts and progress.
If it is a physical experience you wish to achieve, immerse yourself as close to the experience as you can. Try it on for size, visit, watch videos, read books on subjects etc
If you know that others have achieve this desire for themselves, for instance if you want a red Audi TT and you know that others have one, then know with absolute certainty that it is possible to have this car (just as others do) and that you can too. You are meant to have it also – so believe it is possible! Own your desire with certainty!
Value yourself – value you. You are your greatest asset, believe in yourself and own your power!
Be true to yourself, expand your thinking every day – expand your comfort zone everyday – do something new!
Have a ritual of gratitude – give thanks for all you have now, even the smallest things and feel gratitude as if you’ve already achieved your desires
Ask for help from your spirit guides and angels, they will help you, but you have to ask first.
Spot the opportunities that come your way and take inspired action on each one! Quickly!
Share you desires only with those who will nurture your dreams and goals and support you to shine brightly.
Let go of the ‘how’ and focus on the outcome you want, the ‘how’ will show up.
Celebrate each step of the way and take some leaps of faith in yourself.
Find yourself a buddy who will support you to keep on your path
Choose a mentor and coach who will not only keep you focused and motivated, but who will support you to break through the belief blocks that unless identified and released will stop you from ever fulfilling your potential.

I work closely with forward thinking women in small groups and special individual VIP Day’s where they smash though their blocks and accelerate towards their goals. It’s not for everyone and I work on an application basis.

But if you’ve had enough of being comfortable being uncomfortable and ready to claim your birth right – follow your desires, with passion and purpose and would like to feel supported on this journey then make an empowering decision today – there is no time to waste. Decide that you are worth it, you can achieve it.

Message me ali@alisoleil.com and ask about a complimentary consultation session to discover how I can support you to break away from your struggles and into the reality you were meant to be experiencing where it is abundant, joyful and fulfilling. It really is waiting for you, are you going to take it?

Looking forward to hearing from you!

To all your successes

Ali xx

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Dec

Let’s Set Your 2012 Intentions!

Posted in Articles, Christmas, Goal Setting, gratitude, happiness, Perfect Days, Personal Development.

Here we are almost at the start of 2012 – the beginning of a new year of success, adventure and possibility!

Many people begin to plan in January for their year ahead – holidays, new car, new home and house extensions and I wonder how many people give the same amount of time to planning their life?

Looking at glossy holiday brochures is wonderful, you can escape the cold and rain and imagine being on a beach for a week or two, feeling free and relaxed but I wonder if you ever spend time the same amount of time or more imagining your life and really planning what you want to achieve, how you want to grow as a person. Life is a journey – do you want to be the driver or the passenger? Do you want to choose an interesting, scenic and exciting route or leave it to chance and have a snooze in the back?

Often we make short term plans – fun interruptions in our lives; we dot in the holidays and the things that give us excitement or something to look forward to – but how would it be if we made a decision to plan a bit further ahead? Rather than life developing and us existing, we can choose to make things happen the way we design them instead of leaving it all up to chance?

This is your life. You want the best for your family and friends – why not for yourself?

How to set your Intentions and Personal Promises for 2012

1^st Step

Choose a time when you are feeling peaceful, relaxed. Free of interruption. Get yourself in a positive state, open to possibilities. Write a list of things of what you are proud to have achieved during 2011. List them down and quietly reflect on them. Feel the feelings of achievement bubbling up and allow yourself to celebrate every success, big or small!

2^nd Step

What did you do during 2011 that was the ‘icing on the cake?’ Make a list. What gave you your greatest sense of joy? Who was there? What happened? How did it make you feel? What photographs do you treasure of those moments? Go and have a look at them… and relive the feelings, sounds and sights…

3^rd Step

Think about the areas in your life that are important – list them down eg career, environment, personal development, fun & recreation, relationship with friends/family, significant other, spirituality etc. Consider where you are with each right now, today. Give each one a score out of 10, with 1 being low and 10 being high. How would you score your satisfaction with each area?

4^th Step

Think about how you would like to change each area – what would make it a 10? What would ‘10’ be like for you? How would it feel? Close your eyes if it helps… imagine, dream… design… paint a picture in your imagination of how you’re choose to change things. Imagine if Aladdin’s genie gave you 3 wishes… how would you use them to change your life? What if you had more than 3 wishes, how would you use them? Drift into your imagination, what can you hear, what can you smell, taste? Who is there? What are they doing? How bright is the picture? Turn up the colour… adjust the volume so it’s right. What difference would it make to your life? How would it affect your relationships?

5^th Step

Put the list in an order of priority. Which area of your life needs action most urgently? When would you like to have this achieved by? Set dates for the other areas, being realistic – but being true to you.

6^th Step

What is the first step to achieving your intentions and personal promises? Who can help you? What resources do you need? Where can you get these? What additional learning do you need? Where can you find out about this? When are you going to begin? How important is this intention?

7^th Step

Why are you doing this? What is motivating you? If you do not have a big enough reason ‘why,’ you will find yourself falling off the wagon… like many new year resolutions people make, it will be overlooked and your life will be left to chance once more. How do you want to feel when you look back in 10 years and remember the dreams you once had, that you didn’t ‘bother’ to achieve? Decide how important this is to you, your family – choose to make it a priority in your life.

8^th Step

Who will you share your intentions with? Be careful here. I have found that if we are too free with our excitement about how we’re designing our lives – others do not always support us and try to prick our bubble. Sometimes, friends and family like life to be the way it is and that’s that. They do not want anything to change. It can be that they do not want to see us start something and then fail. If they love us they will want to protect us. Others may think it’s best for us to take a more conventional route or do things the way they did. Each person is a unique individual with their own set of life situations and challenges. If we listen to and take on board negative comments of others, we’re bound to struggle to achieve our intentions. We must have belief in ourselves, determination and adopt a success strategy that works for us. We must be clear about why we’re doing this and what the outcome will be. Share your intentions with people who will support you, encourage you and be inspired by you. Keep focusing on the ‘why’ and the positive outcome. Deciding to have a coach can be crucial to your success – a coach will keep you on track, will believe in you and will encourage you to dig deep to find the solutions to your action steps. It is a powerful union.

9^th Step

What will you do to remind yourself daily of your intentions and your commitment to yourself? Some clients of mine choose to write themselves a statement which they keep in their wallet or handbag which they look at each day. It could be something such as:

“It is 3^rd January 2013 and I am sitting on my porch of my dream French house with my loving partner, watching the sun setting over the mountains. We are sipping champagne and planning our next holiday together. We feel healthy, safe and secure. I live in abundance of all good things and my life is perfect.”

It is important that this statement is personal, set in the future with a date and conjures up the feeling you will have once you are living the life you’ve designed.

Some of my clients choose to design a ‘dream board’ which is board covered with cut out pictures of how their life is going to be, what they will have, what they will be doing or what’s important to them. Also words that inspire them to dream big and take action. They will look at the board every morning and every night – looking at the pictures and choose to imagine the feelings of having those things now. This is an incredibly powerful way of speeding up the intention process – ideas will come to you during the night as your mind continues to dream while you’re asleep – you will wake up often with new ideas of how you will make this intention your reality.

10^th Step

Each month, ideally on the first week day or weekend look at your intention list. Look at what you’ve achieved. Praise yourself and celebrate. Feel good about how you’ve moved forward. The changes you can see now, the way this makes you feel. How your positive actions are affecting your state of mind. Decided what the next step will be to getting to your intention. What you need to do, who you need to speak to and put a date on the action – when will this be achieved by?

Intention/Personal Promise Summary

Okay, so imagine… In ten years time, how would you like to be living? If you were to look back at this decade what would you like to be able to say you’d achieved, ticked off your dream list or experienced? You’ll be ten years older… go on, you can do the maths. I heard something recently that really got me thinking – he said, imagine you’re about to meet your maker – you’re standing at the gates of heaven and the angel says to you “Wow, I’ve heard about the Great Wall of China, the pyramids of Egypt, Hanging Gardens of Babylon, Stonehenge, Grand Canyon! Wow what are they like?” and you turn to him and say “Oh I don’t know, I never went there… but I can tell you what happened on EastEnders last week!”

Let’s make 2012 not just a New Year but a Fantastic New Year! A year where you make some positive shifts, feel fulfilled, and achieve the success (whatever that means to you) that you’ve always wanted.

I will have only one new opening for a new one to one mentoring/coaching client in January 2012l Are you feeling ready to take some massive action and make 2012 your BEST year so far? Send me an email to ali@alisoleil.com and let’s have an informal chat about how you can have your best year yet!

Wishing you a very very Happy New Year!

Love and smiles

Ali xxx

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Dec

Stop The Clocks, It’s Time To ‘Be’ – Join Me?

Posted in Goal Setting, gratitude, happiness, Perfect Days, Uncategorized.

November was a very busy month for me, how about you? Sometimes when we realise that we’ve been working too hard, it’s too late – we’re already depleted of energy, feeling drained. It’s like the red warning light on the fuel gauge has been on for too long in your car and you know you’re running on vapours. The offer of a long weekend in the South of France was a blessing although I wondered if I really had time to be away. Does that sound too familiar? There are always reasons not to do go away – lack of time, money, work (except I love what I do!) and all the other things to ‘do’, not to mention the Christmas shopping…. One of my friends booked her ticket to stay with our friend Julia and asked when I was going to book mine…. mmm…. a gentle reminder, it’s time.

As women, traditionally we tend to put our own needs last and a gentle reminder is welcome when we forget. So I booked my ticket a return flight to the South of France for £39! Bargain! And at the start of December, my coaching friend Hilary and I set off to meet our friend Julia who owns a Chateau Ventenac and our long weekend began. We left the cold, rain and drizzle at Luton Airport for the sunnier, more carefree climes of Beziers Airport one hour and 20 minutes away!

Isn’t it amazing how we can be running at 100 miles an hour and have a gazillion things to ‘do’ urgently and yet when the distance separates us from the ‘stuff’ to do, we can feel distance from the stresses? Maybe that’s just me? I could literally feel the pressures and stresses melt off me, and fall away. I began to relax, slow down, and went from ‘doing’ to ‘being’ very quickly. Sitting on Julia’s terrace without a coat in December, gazing across the Canal du Midi, across the miles and miles of vineyards and nestling on the horizon the Pyrannes mountains sat amongst the fluffy clouds. It was purrrrrfect! I couldn’t have felt more at home, more relaxed and more at peace… heaven.

When was the last time you really stopped what you were doing and took some ‘me time’? Stopped what you were doing and went somewhere different? Even though you felt under pressure, chose to chill out? Being with my two good friends gave me the chance to unwind, catch up on their news and share some of my news too. We laughed, dreamed, wandered, contributed, sat by a crackling open fire and even watched X Factor with a glass of something red and giggly!

Since being back, I’ve been more productive, had more fun, slept better and it feels like I’ve been on a long holiday! It is truly wonderful. So a few days out really can make a huge difference… When are you going to give yourself some time out? Do it! Go on! Whilst I was at Chateau Ventenac I reflected on 2011 and made some decisions about 2012. Have you begun considering what you’d like to achieve in 2012? Exciting isn’t it?

Whilst I was away, I really wished I could share the gorgeous landscape, the beautiful chateau and the time out with my wonderful clients, I know that you too could do with some time to recharge and reflect. So, I mentioned this to Julia who runs her Chateau as a retreat/workshop business, if I could book a week in October 2012 – and guess what? It’s happening! I can’t wait to share more about this with you and I’ll be posting some information about it on this website soon, so keep checking back! It would be great to share this time with you, making some life transformations and relaxing too. If you’d like to see more of Chateau Ventenac please stop by Julia’s website http://www.chateauventenac.com.

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Nov

Opportunity Knocks – Will You Let It In?

Posted in Goal Setting, happiness, Life Challenges, Networking, Personal Development, self esteem.

When opportunity knocks on your door – what happens for you?

If it’s something you’ve been wanting, you may feel an urge to “woohoo!” I know I do!

But what if it’s an opportunity that feels so fantastic it feels beyond your reach? What happens then? When you feel the stretch, do you feel butterflies stirring in your stomach? The dreaded inner gremlin telling you, you don’t deserve? A sense of mixed emotion like a tug of war – of wanting but not wanting to fail? To look stupid or to make a mistake?

Sometimes that old feeling of not feeling quite good enough, or not deserving enough can creep into your thinking and you have to stop in your tracks and ask yourself what is really going on. Do you do that too? Sometimes it maybe money; the opportunity is there but money isn’t? You attract what you focus on – not having enough, means you stay in lack. When you step up and show up – you grow. When you embrace opportunity, more opportunities show up and this often includes the money you desire and so on. ”If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got.”

What is fear anyway? A negative emotion, False Evidence Appearing Real? How real is it? What I know is, that often it skips along in our minds with the inner gremlin. It keeps you small, keeps you shrinking, fitting in, and dabbling around the edges of your greatness.

You are here to Shine, to Stand Out, Embrace Life, Make a Difference and Grow!

Does it make you shut out the opportunity? Or welcome it with open arms?

So, who would you or I be without fear? How much more could you achieve? How much more could you become? Enjoy? Share? What could taking the the big leap mean to you? What if you didn’t fail but spectacularly rose to the top? When we focus on what we want – or what we don’t want, we get it – so when opportunity strikes, grab it, go for it, celebrate it and GROW!

2011 has been a massive year of growth personally for me, how about you? This year, I’ve been leaping out of my comfort zone, stepping up and achieving so many of my own desires and dreams. I’ve also had my fair share of knock backs too and I’ve got back up again and brushed myself down. Those lessons have been hugely valuable for me, lessons to do things differently so I’ll get different results next time. Now, when I feel the butterflies of fear creeping in when I’m presented with an opportunity, I remind myself this is just excitement and go for it! There is nothing to lose and everything to gain. You’re worth it, right? Make this lifetime the BEST it can be! Why wouldn’t you?

Love and sunshine

Ali xx

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Apr

What Are You Grateful For Which Is Yet To Come?

Posted in Goal Setting, gratitude, happiness, Perfect Days, Personal Development, self esteem.

Wow, what a great response to the last blog about feeling grateful. It’s always wonderful to get feedback, I feel so grateful. I received messages of gratitude for family, new jobs, good health, pay rise and also for these messages.

I was given a Gratitude Journal last year by my mentor. It is a merchandise product from The Secret and I’ve found writing in it a wonderful experience. I write what I am grateful for now and on the opposite page there is space for writing what I am grateful for in the future – and write from my heart as if I already have/experience it.

It can feel strange saying “I am so grateful for the beautiful beach house which overlooks the sea” when I do not already have it – the amazing thing is, I’ve found it crystallises my dreams, and I go with the flow of what I’m feeling in that moment. It doesn’t matter if I repeat over and over the same feelings of gratitude because as you know, where focus goes, energy flows – ie, you get what you focus on! And it feels FABULOUS!

Go on, try it and let me know how that feels for you. Focus and celebrate your future now. Keep a Gratitude Journal and find some time each day (or every few days) – you’ll be amazed at the results you are getting – and the feelings it creates inside of you!

Quote of the day: “Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.” Brian Tracy

News Flash: I have space for just 2 new clients this month (Open to ladies in the UK and overseas – via Skype).

Message me now if you feel ready to step up and find out more about getting the life you know you deserve – be quick, these places will be filled quickly!

Wishing you so much happiness

Ali xx

Ali Soleil – Feminine Self Esteem Mentor

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Mar

Are you ready to step up? Here is my offer to you

Posted in Goal Setting, happiness, Life Challenges, Personal Development, self esteem.

I was moved some years ago by a poem which I’d love to share with you. You may be familiar with the words of Marianne Williamson, I’m sure if you’re like me then you won’t mind reading them again.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

I wonder how these words affect you? I know that the first time I read them I could see how I’d been ‘fitting’ in with everyone else and was keeping myself small so I didn’t stand out, didn’t want to risk criticism from others and lacked belief in myself – I didn’t want to be seen. Do you do this too? My self esteem was very low. It cost me relationships with friends and partners, I didn’t think anyone would find me interesting or my opinions. I felt I was a disappointment to my family, was happy to spend money on my children but not on myself, didn’t like myself very much, didn’t feel safe and was always worrying about things. And then good news - it began to change! I got some coaching and mentoring!

It was like the chains that were holding me a prisoner just dropped off and I was able to step into the light, regain my self esteem, discover who I really was and began to live my purpose to the full.

Whilst I didn’t have the money, I knew I didn’t want to put my life on hold and if things stayed as they were, I’d never have the money. I could see how much my flawed thought patterns and behaviours were costing me (and as a role model, future generations). I knew that my happy future depended on getting some support. I was ready to invest in myself so I borrowed some money and used my credit card. It was the best thing I could have done to set myself free and to release the ‘real’ me again!

Having a coach to ‘hold my hand’, someone who asked me the difficult questions that I’d never asked myself, who supported and believed in me, my really accelerated my progress. The results were tremendous! I still have a coach and a mentor today who support me to accelerate in other areas of my life - coaching is super powerful!

Do you feel ready to step into the light too? Have these blogs over the months been supporting you to make some changes which are creating a better life for you?

If you feel that you would like to accelerate your progress, invest in yourself and work with me on a one to one basis then I have an offer for you! This won’t be for everyone, but if your heart is telling you this is your time, then I have only 5 spaces to take on new clients currently. I would love to have an informal chat with you if you feel ready to shine.

Most clients choose book a series of 6 x 50 minutes weekly sessions with me as this is more effective than booking one off sessions. Your investment in 6 sessions is £497. However, as you are one of my loyal Damsels, I am offering you the opportunity of applying for one of these 5 places with a massive £100 off the usual price bringing this amazing offer to you at £397!!!! My mentor thinks I’ve lost the plot as my prices will be going up in the near future, and yet I feel in my heart that I want to do this for you. This blog will be seen many hundred ladies, many of whom have booked sessions with me in the past and who will want to snap up this bargain, so I urge you to be quick in replying. Please email me with ‘Application for discount’ in the subject line and a short message and I’ll get back to you asap to arrange our informal, no obligation chat ali@daringdamsels.com. This offer is only open to you for the next 7 days.

Let me know if you are ready to draw the line in the sand, to step up into the light to allow me the privilege of supporting you get your life ‘back’.

With love and happiness

Ali xx Feminine Self Esteem Mentor

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What do some previous clients say about their coaching/mentoring experience with me?

“Ali’s wonderful warmth and generous spirit puts you immediately at ease. Her intuition and empathy combined with a fervent support of what makes each individual woman uniquely special leads to a coaching session that is uplifting and inspiring. Ali will not only make you realise what is great about you, but help you on a path towards realising your own unique potential.” Yiannik Bennett, Florida

“Ali immediately made me feel very comfortable and safe during our coaching session with her friendly and empathetic approach. I had been blocked for some time and was unsure how to progress forward. She skillfully changed tack when it became apparent that I was not going to respond predictably but still enabled me to feel in control at all times. Due to her spontaneous and skillful creativity, we ended up achieving far more than I would have dreamed possible. As a result of the session, I at last feel able to move forward again, helped in no small way by the strategies and exercises she has given me. I give Ali highest recommendation. Anyone who is seeking sensitive and skilled guidance in their business or personal lives would benefit greatly by seeking her help”. Laurelle Rond, England

“What is special about Ali’s coaching is her gentle and compassionate approach, along with her perceptive and intuitive insights. Through her support and her powerful questioning, I have been able to see more clearly and be more empowered. I would thoroughly recommend her to anyone who wants to make deep and significant changes in their lives. Thank you Ali for all your help!” Hilary Reeves, England

“Ali has a great manner about her. She is patient and easy to talk to and really helped me to think about my priorities and focus in life.” Ros Kitson, England

“Ali is a wonderful, sensitive and compassionate coach and friend. She has helped me to get back in touch with my self worth and talents when I had lost sight of them, spending many years at home looking after my family. I now feel ready to move on to the next stage of my life and I am very grateful to Ali for helping me find the way.” Chris Iishin Horner, New Zealand

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Oct

What do you want?

Posted in Goal Setting, happiness, Life Challenges, Perfect Days, Personal Development, self esteem.

When you’re thinking about your life and looking forward, do you know what you really want?

Knowing what you want is the important thing. Not to worry about the ‘how’… but to keep focused on the outcome, what you want to happen and not get bogged down in the nitty gritty of how it will become your reality.

It’s good for you to have some clarity about what you really want. Most of us know what we don’t want and struggle to know what we do want. As you’re reading this, I know you are wanting to gain higher self esteem and confidence. Imagine how different your home life, family life, career, finances etc will be once you have built these up - these are your reasons for building your self esteem in the first place. If you are unclear about what you want and maybe there are some grey areas in your thinking. You’re not alone, so many clients struggle with this and they book me for a coaching session or more. If you’d like to devote some special time to exploring and discovering just what you do want, email me at ali@daringdamsels.com this is your life, you deserve it to be a fulfilling and happy one!

So, whatever you want or dream of, get into the habit of asking yourself – or even praying to a higher power for an answer every night before you fall asleep. Ask for the way to be shown to you. You may well wake up with more ideas – write them down and keep pen and paper by your bed ready.

What I’ve started doing more recently is keeping a diary just to record the bursts of inspiration. So often we do not do anything with this information or ideas which come from our higher self/Universe and yet they are the very gifts which will guide us on our path. Today I looked at my diary again and had already forgotten to take action on some points – so I was so grateful for having recorded them. That’s what we all do, we get the messages, think wow and then we forget them, so I urge you to keep a record of them and begin taking action.

The way to achieve your dreams may not seem probable or realistic at first glance, it does not mean that it is impossible, just open your mind… and be aware that sometimes the way will be shown in a less likely way than the obvious.

Quote of the day

”Don’t limit yourself. Many people limit themselves to what they think they can do. You can go as far as your mind lets you. What you believe, remember, you can achieve.” Mary Kay Ash

Wishing you all you wish for yourself

Ali xx

Feminine Self Esteem Mentor – www.DaringDamsels.com

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